by Zaj Banzon
Have you ever heard someone in Japan say mottainai ?
At first, it might sound like the Filipino word sayang—both express regret when something feels wasted. But while sayang often stops at “too bad” or “what a waste,” mottainai goes further.
It’s not only about regret, but also about gratitude and respect for what we have, whether that’s food, time, or even opportunities.
The word is often used when something useful is thrown away, food is left uneaten, or time is wasted. But mottainai isn’t just about waste in the physical sense—it’s also about showing respect for resources and opportunities.
When Japanese people say mottainai, they might actually be feeling one of several things :
“It’s still usable, don’t waste it… ”
“I wasted something or missed a good chance…”
“You could’ve done better… ”
“That’s too good for this situation…”
“This is more than I deserve...”
In English, you’d need several different phrases to capture these feelings. In Japanese, just one word—mottainai—covers them all. That’s what makes it such a powerful and unique expression.
Japan has long valued the careful use of resources—whether it’s food, money, or energy. The mottainai spirit has been passed down for generations, often through parents and grandparents reminding children not to waste. Over time, it becomes second nature to live with mindfulness and avoid waste in everyday life.
This value also shows up in traditional beliefs. Ancient Japanese people thought that everything—even tools—had a spirit. By the Muromachi period, stories of tsukumogami (objects that gain a spirit after long use) became popular. Old pots, instruments, or tools were said to turn into spirits or playful monsters if neglected or discarded carelessly. These tales were a way to teach respect: don’t throw things away lightly—treat them with care.
The idea behind mottainai comes from Buddhist teachings about respecting life and the things we use. In modern times, it has also become linked with environmental movements—Wangari Maathai, a Kenyan Nobel Peace Prize winner, even promoted mottainai as a global motto for reducing waste and protecting nature.
So whether it’s finishing your meal, reusing what you already have, or cherishing opportunities, the mottainai mindset encourages us to value everything around us.
In a way, mottainai is Japan’s version of sayang—but with an added layer of mindfulness. Where sayang points out a loss, mottainai encourages us to treasure things and avoid waste in the first place. By carrying that spirit with us, we learn not only to regret less, but also to live with more gratitude and respect for what we have.
You don’t have to say mottainai often yourself, but knowing the word will help you connect with Japanese values. If someone says it to you, don’t take it as a scolding—it’s more of a gentle reminder to appreciate what you have.
And as an expat, you might find that adopting the spirit of mottainai—being mindful about food, time, and resources—helps you live more comfortably and meaningfully in Japan.
References : MOTTAINAIについて
Posted : 08 September 2025
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