by Zaj Banzon
If you’ve been learning Japanese for a while, chances are you came across the word “daijoubu” (大丈夫) pretty early on. It seems simple, right? It means “okay.” Easy.
But just like in other languages, “okay” doesn’t always mean okay. People often say they’re fine when they’re not really fine.
So, what does it actually mean? And how can you use it correctly without sounding vague or confusing?
Let me break it down for you.
Meaning 1 : It’s okay / No problem.
A: “Is it okay if I sit here?”
B: “Daijoubu desu.” → “Yes, it’s fine.”
Meaning 2 : I don’t need help / I’m good.
A: “Want me to get your medicine?”
B: “Daijoubu.” → “No thanks, I’m good.”
This is where things get tricky.
A: “Do you want coffee?”
B: “Daijoubu desu.”
Depending on the tone and situation, this could mean :
“Sure, I’m okay with coffee.” (Yes)
“No thanks, I’m good.” (No)
In other words, “daijoubu” can mean both yes and no.
It’s a bit like saying “I’m good” in English — it all depends on how it’s said.
Japanese speakers often use “daijoubu” to be polite or to avoid being too direct. As a learner, you might find yourself using it too often, which can make your Japanese sound unclear.
For example :
You see your friend looking tired.
You ask: “Daijoubu?”
They reply: “Un… daijoubu…”
But do they really mean it? Maybe they’re just trying to avoid making you worry.
To sound more natural and specific in Japanese, try these alternatives depending on the situation :
You want to say YES
→ 「大丈夫です。お願いします。」
Daijoubu desu, onegaishimasu.
You want to say NO PROBLEM / NO WORRIES
→ 「問題ありません」 Mondai arimasen (formal)
→ 「平気だよ」 Heiki dayo (casual)
You want to politely say NO
→ 「結構です」 Kekkou desu.
→ 「気持ちだけで大丈夫です」 Kimochi dake de daijoubu desu.
Talking about your health
→ 「疲れているけど、少し休めば大丈夫」
Tsukarete iru kedo, sukoshi yasumeba daijoubu.
Responding to someone’s concern
→ 「ありがとう、でも平気」
Arigatou, demo heiki.
These phrases help clarify your meaning while still sounding polite.
“Daijoubu” is a useful and flexible word. But it can also be vague and easily misunderstood. As you become more comfortable with Japanese, try to replace it with more specific phrases depending on the situation.
The next time someone says “daijoubu” to you, pay close attention to the context. They might be saying “I’m okay,” or they might actually be saying, “Please help me.”
Posted : 07 June 2025
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